How did you get into bdsm?

gone xo · Mar 5, 2012

... or how did your interest in bdsm originate, also if you feel like sharing what was your initial feeling about it.

I personally have trouble remembering when it first started. think it may have stemmed from a sort of uniform fetish back some time ago when i was going to private school. i've always had a taste for things that seemed contrary to vanilla.

Can't say I had any uneasy feelings about it arrousing me or anything, though when a close friend of mine first asked me to be her master I seemed a little put off. For some reason when it came down to dominating a woman it went against something deep inside, although I think I would have felt much different if she was a he...

Elegant_Thrall · Mar 5, 2012

Well my "discovery" of porn, as it were, took place when I was about 13 years old when I stumbled upon my dad watching some. Naturally, next opportunity I got for some alone time with the family computer, I did a little googling. I looked at all kinds of stuff, marvelling at the weirdness of it all. Of course I eventually found some bdsm stuff and assorted fetish stuff and I immediately knew I liked it more than the other stuff.

master jey · Mar 5, 2012

after having seen japanese girls puke in each others mouths you can't exactly go back to playboy

Randy Marsh

sebastian · Mar 5, 2012

master jey said:
after having seen japanese girls puke in each others mouths you can't exactly go back to playboy

Randy Marsh

http://www.theonion.com/articles/japan-pledges-to-halt-production-of-weirdo-porn-th,2657/

This is one of the most accurate things the Onion has ever printed.

master jey · Mar 5, 2012

Easter you go kinkier it gets

Anna2 · Mar 5, 2012

I've enjoyed aspects of bdsm with many of my boyfriends, it is only within the last year or so that I knew there was a name for the types of activities I enjoyed and that they all fall under the bdsm umbrella. In other words, I've always liked it.

slavebrat · Mar 7, 2012

My interest stems back to my childhood. I'd always have fantasies of sexual domination throughout my adolescence, teens and my adult life. I just didn't know that there was an actual lifestyle until I met a sub who asked me to be his domme. I was intrigued. So I did my research, had fun playing dommee. Because of the research I started to realize that I have some very submissive tendences. So, I found a dom who helped me to connect with my submissive side. I found that I absolutely loved being submissive than domme. I then started training for my submissive side and found I had a desire to be a slave. This is the one place I found peace and purpose.

glasgow-sub · Mar 7, 2012

When I was younger I used to fantasize about older men taking advantage of me and tying me up. I've always encouraged men to have rough sex with me, but it's only very recently that I started to do my research and discover there's a name to what I am and what I like. I've still not really had any experience of being dominated, but I fantasize about it. Like slavebrat said 'this is the one place I find peace and purpose' - you hit the nail on the head with that one! Although I kinda don't feel at peace just now because I don't have a real life Dom. I don't really know how to start it all off, should I aim for an actual relationship with a Dom straight off, or maybe just play a few times first to see how I like it!? Hmmmm

JettOnly · Mar 8, 2012

Well to be honest being in the Goth scene I was always about people in the BDSM scene but I thought it was all about whips and things
I didnt think I had any experience in BDSM - even when I was in a pet shop with my partner trying on dog collars I didnt think that had anything to do with BDSM

Then I met someone who said he was into it, I looked into it. He turned out to be an azz and gave me a pretty bad experience
But at the same time doing research and talking to people on here and other places I realised that I could hopefully be into BDSM lite

and enjoy this bits of it I enjoy and there are (a few) people out there into similar so its possible I might meet up with them

gone xo · Mar 9, 2012

that's pretty nifty, wish I could offer advice to glasgow :x

How did you get into bdsm?

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