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I was wondering if anyone had any advice on bringing bdsm into a currently vanilla relationship. I've been with my current boyfriend for 5 years and I really love him. I couldn't imagine being with someone else but I have been growing more and more frustrated with our sex life for the past couple of years. We engage in bondage play and some light bdsm now but it really isn't enough for me anymore. Throughout our entire relationship I have only come twice during sex, both times were during some of our more daring encounters. I know I have made this harder on myself because I used to fake orgasms at the beginning of our relationship. I stopped that a while ago and I know how stupid that was now but I was 16 at the time and for some reason it seemed like a good idea. I also used to cut myself in my early teens to deal with depression and recently I have started doing it again except now I do it simply because I need so badly to feel pain. The times when my bf does tie me up/spank me/hurt me I can tell he enjoys it but I think he holds back because he is afraid of seriously hurting me. I don't know how to tell him that I WANT him to hurt me. I want to tell him that I trust him so much that I want to submit myself to him completely but I don’t know how he will take it. I am afraid if I tell him all the dirty things I want he will think that I'm weird or not take me seriously. Has anyone else been in a similar situation. How do you start a conversation like this when you are not sure how the person you care about will react?
btw:Sorry this thread is so long
btw:Sorry this thread is so long
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