Unwritten rules

ImperialConditioning · Jan 5, 2012

I've been nervous about the idea of attending any sort of club... I always get afraid the other people are going to be either way more into it than I am, or there will be some creepers hanging about.

Let me clarify that I don't think people who practice BDSM are creepers, I just think it's common for creepers to be in any sort of club or gathering. The fact that the subject matter is taboo only adds to my fear of creeps.

sebastian · Jan 5, 2012

Sally, if you get the impression that you've violated a rule of the club you're at, I think the thing to do would be to apologize and ask for an explanation of the rule so that you don't violate it again. Explain that you're new to the scene or the club, and had no intention of violating a rule.

Smallest · Jan 5, 2012

Also check their website for conduct rules. Whoever it was could just be like that...

Sally · Jan 6, 2012

it is more like a meeting than a club. and I do not think it's so hard rules, they would have told me when I became a member. I was thinking more about the rules for all the subs that I should have understood. but since you say it is individual, I'm probably just paranoid, or meet a very strict Dom. anyway, I feel much safer now. and I'll talk more through my Master.

Thank you all <3

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