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Maybe this is just a difference between those who have embraced or immersed in the culture and those now, who may never get the need to (this is not meant as an insult).
Yet, Seb. You, who I consider a mentor, and certainly an authority, have immersed in, and embraced this culture for as long as I have and your comments are different than I would have thought.
30 years ago BDSM was pretty much an underground culture, with many of the things we think of as normal considered illegal (even with consent).
Then again, maybe this is just one of those aspects of going mainstream. To tell the truth, maybe it's time to not be so concerned about old cultural formalities and just live as who you are.
When I started my own self discovery about who I am and what that means, there wasn't an internet community to jump into. There were books, munches, clubs, etc....
Those who talked about it then were pretty serious, as are many now.
I certainly have absorbed a lot from this thread.
And, yes NukAshlie.... What do you call a switch?
Thank you Jeremy, for suggesting this.
Yet, Seb. You, who I consider a mentor, and certainly an authority, have immersed in, and embraced this culture for as long as I have and your comments are different than I would have thought.
30 years ago BDSM was pretty much an underground culture, with many of the things we think of as normal considered illegal (even with consent).
Then again, maybe this is just one of those aspects of going mainstream. To tell the truth, maybe it's time to not be so concerned about old cultural formalities and just live as who you are.
When I started my own self discovery about who I am and what that means, there wasn't an internet community to jump into. There were books, munches, clubs, etc....
Those who talked about it then were pretty serious, as are many now.
I certainly have absorbed a lot from this thread.
And, yes NukAshlie.... What do you call a switch?
Thank you Jeremy, for suggesting this.
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