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If you're just looking for one-off play, camming or IRL, ask if she is interested, then talk about kink and play.
It's rude to force your kink on someone like you did there to me though. Yes, it was mild, and it's not like you, say, started feeling up my ribs, but asking someone who has not expressed an interest in playing about your fetish (especially someone who has quite a few posts on this site commenting about their partner) is bad and can be taken as harassment (I don't, but it happens).
If you're looking for someone for a long term relationship, I wouldn't bring up kinks or body-questions on first contact - even on a kink site, unless they ask. It's a bit too early for those to be considered when you're just testing the waters. When you talk about sexual compatibility (I imagine that would be before the first time you fucked), it could come up, or just in a talk about what you're looking for in people. Don't force it on them or ask about their ribs, but let them know, and respect their opinion (although of course if they hate it and you can't go without, no further courting needs to happen).
So I guess what I'm saying is bring it up, politely and not right away, and don't force it. It's up to you whether it's a requirement before you'll be with them, but kinks shouldn't be the only element of a relationship that you discuss.
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