theonlyone
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I've been where you are. Its taken a few long, uncomfortable conversations with my Husband to really get him to understand how my brain works differently than vanilla women.
Before I fessed up that I wanted to try BDSM, I was having a REAL problem with my sex drive. The sex was always great [im just damn lucky that our parts match up almost perfectly] but getting me to actually get there was almost impossible.
It has taken a lot of open communication and me being willing to drop my sub act and tell him straight up what I think of some things.
If he is interested in going on the BDSM journey, I say find him a mentor. It should help him get more comfortable with topping and the whole BDSM world in general. My Husband is damn stubborn, so i'm still workin down the wall of allowing us to go to a munch.
Good luck!!
Before I fessed up that I wanted to try BDSM, I was having a REAL problem with my sex drive. The sex was always great [im just damn lucky that our parts match up almost perfectly] but getting me to actually get there was almost impossible.
It has taken a lot of open communication and me being willing to drop my sub act and tell him straight up what I think of some things.
If he is interested in going on the BDSM journey, I say find him a mentor. It should help him get more comfortable with topping and the whole BDSM world in general. My Husband is damn stubborn, so i'm still workin down the wall of allowing us to go to a munch.
Good luck!!
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