My bf has a fetish that is starting to disrupt our relationship and I wondered if anyone else has dealt with this before. He's an aquaphiliac to a degree that seems abnormal to me. He spends 2-3 hours a day looking at underwater porn, downloading pics of women under water (not even nude), looking at womens' diving competitions and so on. Anything that involves women in the water. He comes to me after looking at this and wants to fuck. Of course I'm starting to find this offensive and starting to wonder if he wants me at all or is just wrapped up in his fantasy world. We've been together about a year. I'm 42 and he's 49. I have a bit of a fetish myself-hence why I'm here, but my cuffs and gag go unused. When we have sex he talks about drowning me or about being under water in general. I've brought this up with him and he tells me it's just me and he doesn't have a problem. All men look at porn etc etc. Of course all men look at porn, but to what degree? He can't see why I'm hurt by this and tells me it has nothing to do with me. Of course being who I am, I am starting to take offense and feeling unwanted and totally unattractive. Had anyone else had issues like this?