fourdegreessober
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Hi again...and thank you everyone for your advice/opinions.
I've gotten my bf to open up a bit about his fetish and I've learned where it manifested from. He told me that the first time he had an orgasm was in the bathtub when he was about 10 or 11. He said he always associated being in the water with sex since then.
Honestly I don't think he ever told his ex-wife of 26 years this and I feel good that he's willing to tell me about it. He hid this fetish from me for the first few months we were together and I think he hid the degree of it from his wife all the time, causing him to go outside his marriage to seek satisfaction.
I am trying not to take everything he does so personally...such as the videos he watches, etc. I would love to make his fantasies come true as long as he is willing to make mine come true. His deepest fantasies involve restraint and bondage of some sort-but always in the water. I want the bondage. I'm hoping we can combine our needs....
I do love this man totally and I want this to work between us. We are both VERY sexually oriented and I think we could be very good together if we can find a solution to this issue. I'm not ready to throw in the towel yet.
I've gotten my bf to open up a bit about his fetish and I've learned where it manifested from. He told me that the first time he had an orgasm was in the bathtub when he was about 10 or 11. He said he always associated being in the water with sex since then.
Honestly I don't think he ever told his ex-wife of 26 years this and I feel good that he's willing to tell me about it. He hid this fetish from me for the first few months we were together and I think he hid the degree of it from his wife all the time, causing him to go outside his marriage to seek satisfaction.
I am trying not to take everything he does so personally...such as the videos he watches, etc. I would love to make his fantasies come true as long as he is willing to make mine come true. His deepest fantasies involve restraint and bondage of some sort-but always in the water. I want the bondage. I'm hoping we can combine our needs....
I do love this man totally and I want this to work between us. We are both VERY sexually oriented and I think we could be very good together if we can find a solution to this issue. I'm not ready to throw in the towel yet.
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