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Hi kitten
I have 'rape fantasies' & unfortunately have experienced 'rape', however, my fantasies are not based around my experience & I do not feel they are connected. Also I dealt with the psychological issues that arose from the rape & would suggest this as a starting point if your fantasy & experience are connected. If you feel the two are unconnected & there are no issues from your experience then this is how I approached it.
When I approached Sir about my fantasies he was a little freaked & found it difficult to understand, but he did not judge me in any way, he also knows the circumstances & details of my experience. I explained, for me, it was about being completely overpowered & the fear of not knowing what was going to happen. He found the word 'rape' unsettlingly & we agreed to refer to my fantasies as 'rough play' or 'forced play' as stanley has already said. Sir also found it difficult as he did not want to 'rape' me, however, we agreed that the term 'rape' was more implied rather than an actual 'act of rape' as all play is consensual & we discuss scene's fully.
I, therefore would suggest just talking to your Sir & explain your fantasy & what appeals & turns you on about it. Discuss any concerns either of you have, again as stanley has said, 'rape' in today's society goes against all beliefs. However, if you find it daunting hitting the subject head on, like I did, then stanley's suggestion about the communication game is excellent.
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