Midnightwolfling
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I have spent the last couple days looking through threads and using the search function and have not come across any thread that this question would fit into. If there is I am sorry for re-posting it.
I guess will have to give a little history on how this came about. M'lord had a girl friend before He moved out here. They had been together for 3 yrs but their relationship had been going downhill fast. They both had an agreement that they could have partners online to fill in the needs that couldn't be met with each other. After Him and I started talking they fell on hard times and I offered them my home. His ex wore his training collar. They talked before they came out here, an ultimatum was laid out for her and she was fine with Him collaring me. To make a long story short that in the two months she actually lived in my house she made things very difficult, causing fights and the 3 of us sitting down and having talks late at night after my kids went to bed. The last night she was in my house she was told that we were going to have a talk and that she was to keep a reasonable tone. Needless to say she kept screaming and woke my kids so He put her in her place. To make a long story really short, he wound up going to jail because of her and is now on probation. One of the requirements is that He attend Domestic Violence classes.
These DV classes are presenting a problem with who we are. They teach that the lifestyle we love and choose to live is wrong. Where is the fine line of what is right and wrong? His counselor told him that we have to keep it strictly to the house and what not. We found out also that anyone could turn him or me for that matter if they see either of us swat on the ass or in my case have my hair pulled. I have gone to wearing my collar around my ankle so it isn't noticeable.
I have tried to lay his fears to rest but still at a loss as to what to do. We did some looking on the net and if someone did turn us in it wouldn't hold up in a court of law. They look at is that he coerced or threatened me and vise versa.
Any suggestions on precautions we should take? We don't want to give up something that means a lot to both of us.
I guess will have to give a little history on how this came about. M'lord had a girl friend before He moved out here. They had been together for 3 yrs but their relationship had been going downhill fast. They both had an agreement that they could have partners online to fill in the needs that couldn't be met with each other. After Him and I started talking they fell on hard times and I offered them my home. His ex wore his training collar. They talked before they came out here, an ultimatum was laid out for her and she was fine with Him collaring me. To make a long story short that in the two months she actually lived in my house she made things very difficult, causing fights and the 3 of us sitting down and having talks late at night after my kids went to bed. The last night she was in my house she was told that we were going to have a talk and that she was to keep a reasonable tone. Needless to say she kept screaming and woke my kids so He put her in her place. To make a long story really short, he wound up going to jail because of her and is now on probation. One of the requirements is that He attend Domestic Violence classes.
These DV classes are presenting a problem with who we are. They teach that the lifestyle we love and choose to live is wrong. Where is the fine line of what is right and wrong? His counselor told him that we have to keep it strictly to the house and what not. We found out also that anyone could turn him or me for that matter if they see either of us swat on the ass or in my case have my hair pulled. I have gone to wearing my collar around my ankle so it isn't noticeable.
I have tried to lay his fears to rest but still at a loss as to what to do. We did some looking on the net and if someone did turn us in it wouldn't hold up in a court of law. They look at is that he coerced or threatened me and vise versa.
Any suggestions on precautions we should take? We don't want to give up something that means a lot to both of us.
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