What's your safe word?

sebastian · Mar 30, 2010

Well, I think I pushed him to the edge. He was completely helpless--convulsing and shrieking wordlessly. So I think Periwinkle was just the first color he could think of, for some reason. I think he was trying to say 'red' and couldn't find that word.

bound · Apr 6, 2010

mmmmph ! mmmmphhhh !

WmaGuy · Apr 7, 2010

bound said:
mmmmph ! mmmmphhhh !

LOL!

That brings up a good point. We used finger snaps and specific leg kicks as "safe motions"... We often used gags and hoods - some very restrictive, so safe words were not an option....

Lillian · Apr 12, 2010

Don't really need one. Been with me guy for 6 years... at some point you know when something is bothering eachother.

For example, love to be smacked on the butt. But, do it on the back and it's too much. A simple look or pushing his hand away... does the trick (not playfully... firmly). If I can use my mouth... I simply change the tone of voice and say "hey".

Body language works beautifully in my opinion... providing you both know eachother well enough.

The same is also true... if I ask for something.... if I see he's not comfortable with it...

Communication is virtually based on body language. And, very little is based on actual words.

Lillian · Apr 12, 2010

Although, when your hands are tied to your sides and your mouth is taped.... snapping can be used.

Obedient Little Puppy · Apr 12, 2010

Or a safetoy, that you can throw/drop on the floor to signify a need to stop play

Lillian · Apr 12, 2010

Sounds like a good idea as well. Of course, the person has to be attentive to see it drop. But, I actually like it.

cfchloefrances96 · Apr 12, 2010

i do just about the same thing bluelagoon does

cfchloefrances96 · Apr 13, 2010

or i scream "JESUS COOKIE" last time i did my master fell on the ground laughing

Precious · Apr 13, 2010

Haha Jesus Cookie where did you come up with that one?

My mistress and I don't normally have a safe word, she usually knows well when it's too much for me- dunno how she does it since I don't cry from pain

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