Hello! I'm new and wanted to drop in and say hi. I just recently got into the bdsm scene, when i met my boyfriend. He was a little scared to tell me at first that he's into it, and especially that he's a sub. I have yet to try it with him though,I will be trying it for the first time tomorrow. What's really bothering me about it is that he wants me to really hurt him. He wants me to whip him until he bleeds, cut him, burn his balls with cigarettes, and a lot of other stuff. I'm really nervous about doing all this because I dont want to hurt him too badly. He wont even allow use of a safe word, he says he doesnt want it to stop no matter how unbearable it is. This is all stuff that turns me on, especially bloodletting. I just dont want to make a mistake and hurt him too badly. Any advice for newcomers to the scene would be greatly appreciated, and especially advice for my situation.