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@Moonlight: Yes, arguing in that magnitude does negatively impact the relationship. What you are referring to as arguing, I call fighting, and the anger with each other is what I'm referring to as arguing. At any rate, yes, in our instance, what got us to end up getting help was when a loaded firearm was involved. We had one child at the time, who witnessed the confrontation which was started over a disagreement over $50. But we did work through it, and our children watched as we did
.I believe it helped our children are right and wrong with handling problems. So, at least there was a thread of good in that situation.
On the small town, small mind, I grew up in a rural area. While I thought that was the life for a long time, making friends in various areas and mostly city friends, I've come to believe we create our own reality. Most urban people are open minded, and will try to understand. Most rural residents feel if you're views are different, or they feel you don't fit in with their little 'bubble reality, ' so to speak, you're an outcast. Also, yes, they ALWAYS must know every detail of your life. I'm a private person, so I never fit in that lifestyle.
In fact, the last place we lived at, some church threatened to protest a funeral of 6 young children from a family that died in a fire. The state police had to heavily guard the road the funeral was on, which I lived on also. The entire county had heard about it, and the county had pledged to kI'll any and all protesters. Our neighbors, of the same religion of the children who died, were spying on us, trying to say we were part of the protest or the vigilante groups. I just didn't want any part of it,and was more private than they liked.
@Smallest: That sucks, I'd think they'd at least attempt to return it to you. Then again, they may have been completely dumbfounded, admiring what they can do with glass now, and passing it around to their friends figuring out what it's primary use was.....but, you may point to a random window next time you're
there and say it looks pretty new, have they recently melted down any glass to get such a perfect fit....it'd be amusing, to say the least....lol
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Disappointing to know it had been thrown out rather than shoved in a box or whatever.
