What to make of new relationship

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by Laulau, Feb 14, 2011.

  1. Laulau

    Laulau New Member

    about 8 months ago I began a Dom/sub relationship and became a sub to a much older Dom. It didn't work out for us but I did enjoy being in that type of relationship. For the last 3 months I have been dating a guy around my age who makes me happy. We celebrated valentine this evening and I thought I would wear some sexy lingerie. I got embarassed for reasons unknown to me as I'm usually outgoing, my boyfreind who is strictly vanilla said it was cute that I did that for him. He didn't try it on and now I'm left feelin really confused. I think now I have had expirience being dominated that I can't have a normal relationship. I fell like I've done something wrong and it's messing with self worth. I would love to hear your thoughts or advice if you have any? Many thanks, lau P.s sorry for any typo's I'm using my iPhone and it's a nightmare!
  2. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Have you read the FAQ? It's the standard starting place we suggest new arrivals to the site. It will give you a lot of stuff to think about and a language to describe what you like.

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