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Hi, thanks again all for your time in replying and for the great advice and opinions.
I think you're all right in that he needs time but you are right Roland in that I am already becoming a bit bored and starting to resent it a bit.
We had a brief chat last night but were both really tired so didn't go into to much depth but he did agree to try and read the sm101 book and to find out a bit about the bondage know how! It's a big step forward but I just hope he carries it out. He said he just wants to relax when he's home from work and unlike me doesn't find reading and searching for info on the internet relaxing! So I'm going to try out savannah's advice to make a word document of snippets of info for him to look at in small chunks. He admitted he was quite happy as we were as our sex life had improved so much and he wants to take it slowly. I tried to explain that we don't have to move too fast with it but I'd feel more comfortable if he read a bit about it before moving onto anything heavier. I think he gets it! And I think at some point soon like subarama30 said I'll have to bite the bullet and tell him what I want and try to think of it as serving him as Sebastian said! Wow that will be a hard one for me!
Anyway thanks again all and I've starting looking for a few stories on here to read together and am going to get the movie Roland suggested. So I just hope he keeps his side of the agreement now!
I think you're all right in that he needs time but you are right Roland in that I am already becoming a bit bored and starting to resent it a bit.
We had a brief chat last night but were both really tired so didn't go into to much depth but he did agree to try and read the sm101 book and to find out a bit about the bondage know how! It's a big step forward but I just hope he carries it out. He said he just wants to relax when he's home from work and unlike me doesn't find reading and searching for info on the internet relaxing! So I'm going to try out savannah's advice to make a word document of snippets of info for him to look at in small chunks. He admitted he was quite happy as we were as our sex life had improved so much and he wants to take it slowly. I tried to explain that we don't have to move too fast with it but I'd feel more comfortable if he read a bit about it before moving onto anything heavier. I think he gets it! And I think at some point soon like subarama30 said I'll have to bite the bullet and tell him what I want and try to think of it as serving him as Sebastian said! Wow that will be a hard one for me!
Anyway thanks again all and I've starting looking for a few stories on here to read together and am going to get the movie Roland suggested. So I just hope he keeps his side of the agreement now!
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