people who need help do not take sarcasm kindly, espesially if its directed at their person in such a rude way. It was very offensive, and not joke-like at all. On the other hand, youre right, its not you to blame, you didnt write that. But expressing you like it will only fluel such behavior.
I think this site is very friendly to new members.
She said herself she was stupid. If she's going to insult her own intelligence, why can't I? Maybe I honestly thought she wouldn't understand and wanted to help... Stargazer used a lot of big words. And I'm not making fun of her desires, I just empathize with their cause, and spelled it out in a less-than-desirable way, whereas you just empathize with her hurt feelings because you aren't very smart either. Sorry.