New to BDSM

Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by Colorful, Oct 16, 2012.

  1. Colorful

    Colorful New Member

    Hi, Im 21 years old and Im from Peru. Ive been always an open minded guy.

    Im in a 6 years relation ship but things gone wrong lately and were taking a break.
    In the sexual aspect, everything became dull and boring with my gf, it was my fault. I kinda lost interest in sex, and now I think that this might be a good alternative for spicing our sexual life.

    I had spank, hit, and that kind of things before. Me and my gf talked about BDSM before. She really enjoys being treated like shes my sexual slave, and I do enjoy humillitiang and faking rape during sex. So some time ago she told me to buy things like whips and handcuffs, but never got to buy them.

    Most of times, I take the domination part while she only obeys. But I also like to be dominated by her from time to time (like 90% for me, 10% for her)

    So, how do I start?

    Btw, Im a feet fetish :D
     
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  2. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    Have you read through the Newcomer's FAQ? It should have some good ideas for you.
     
  3. WarezGod

    WarezGod New Member

    Welcome to the forum. BTW, search around the board and you can find many options. Enjoy.
     
  4. awesomeporn

    awesomeporn Member

    I think is not your fault, in a 6 years relation i guess is normal. As you said you need to change something in the sexual act.
    Does she do anal ? Try a group sex ....
     
  5. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    I don't recommend group sex as a way to fix an ailing relationship. Opening a relationship up can be a complete disaster unless the couple has started addressing the underlying problems already. So discuss what's wrong, figure out how to get the communication working, and then discuss spicing things up. My basic rule is, if a relationship is having trouble, focus on communication first, and then once that part is improving, consider new forms of play.
     

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