Dated wife for 5 years prior to marriage. Been married now 1 year. Found out pretty early on we were both "kinky" masturbators persay. Both had an interested in bondage that lightly came out a few months into the relationship. Going to school we lightly got into bondage etc but 100% in the bedroom no strict play. Not that we are married we've had 2-3 very light "sessions" we call it. Where the toys come out. Basically decided wife is only submissive when very horny and literately gets mad if I tell her what to do or wear outside of a sexual situation. I have seen a very submissive side of her and gotten her deep into subspace before but it was completely due to be the horniest I've ever seen her. Is there any hope to get more involved with the bondage setting or is this just the type of thing enjoy it when its there but its just not much going to work without? Prior to marriage we talked about to keep up the bondage putting one day a week towards it, but somehow life got into the way so like I say it has been very limited in the past year. We are head over heels in love with one another outside of the bedroom but it sure would be great to also add in a bit more of the playtime bondage as well but really not sure how to go about getting it back.