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@Smallest: Please share your opinion
@JettOnly: I agree but don't agree. I personally agree that being a male sub is harder. Men aren't "supposed" to be submissive and vulnerable. I can't say being judged as gay or a pussy is any worse than being judged as a bitch... But at least a bitch can be sexy. Our culture does not view vulnerable heterosexual males as sexually attractive. These are all generalizations, of course. So I would say being a sub male, IMO, is harder.
I'm not sure if you meant being a female sub will be more kinky, as in it will become taboo or that it will be more popular. I guess if you think about "kinky" in a vanilla way it usually involves the woman being uncomfortable and pleasuring the man (anal sex, being spanked, deep throating, etc.)... But that's just my observation. Making a man uncomfortable isn't just kinky to some people- it's dirty and nasty... (Most of my friends think of me as a rather kinky girl when I admit to partaking in anal sex- then I say my boyfriend also likes being anally penetrated, and I get a lot of cringing faces... Same with oral.) So I would think that if it became kinky to be a female sub it would be more popular... Which is possibly what you are saying??
I whole heartedly believe that it should not matter. Gender shouldn't automatically determine what is okay and not okay for you to enjoy sexually. I personally enjoy some really messed up fantasies, that I feel are morally wrong!! But I can't control my sexual fantasies to fit all of my ideals- so I might as well enjoy them!! If I'm not hurting anyone, it doesn't matter.
And I think there are professional female doms, because it's unusual. Men are "naturallY" dominant, and it's a profession for a woman to be a dominant sexual partner. There are many professional doms the city neighboring mine, but most doms on Craigslist personals are male, and most of the male subs are gay. It's also rare for a female to post an ad as a sub... It does happen, however, and there's usually one post.
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