What is your gender and position?

Hopehavoc · Mar 24, 2010

Female switch. So, you're only half alone Tumbl3.

priya · Mar 24, 2010

Just tipped the poll in the favour of Female Sub

MasterInTraining · Mar 24, 2010

Male Dom, wouldn't feel right being a sub.

Tumbl3 · Mar 24, 2010

Hopehavoc said:
Female switch. So, you're only half alone Tumbl3.

hooray! :]

TerribleT · Mar 25, 2010

I voted male switch but i'm 99% the sub in my relationship. I'm physically very strong so domination takes no stretch of the imagination. Boring!..... Not really! I love to dom, when she's in the mood.

Dom-me · Mar 25, 2010

Male sub... so Ill hold the flag with Restrained as a pure sub. I don't know if I could ever Dom, I really have no inclination to. I love the feeling of being owned and dominated; the love and trust that comes with that.

Zandar · Nov 23, 2011

Its been 20 months since this topic was floating high in the active discussions and we probably got a few new members, so....

* bump *

O... and if the poll closed for whatever reason, Im sure a new member can tell and then we simply go start a new poll with the same question

breathe49 · Nov 24, 2011

Male Dom in a vanilla marriage...recently found a female sub in a similar situation, so we are currently finding out more about each other with a view to taking things much further

stefpost666 · Nov 24, 2011

+Female Domme

Foreverbunny91 · Nov 24, 2011

*ahem* As a feminist who is mainly sub, I believe I have an interesting perspective on this... (*Note that I am only talking about straight, cisgendered folks.)

I'll just be frank and say there are less women who become (or realize that they "are") doms, because in most places, if you are a woman and you dominate your man or others, you are a bitch. Also, if you are a submissive male, you are either a pussy or you are gay. (I'm using the term "are" to mean if I make a HUGE generalization about what most people will think about you and how they will pass judgement upon you.)

However, I think there will start to be more female doms soon, because women are starting to be encouraged to be "independant," strong, empowered, take-no-bullshit-from-men types... This would be great if it did not mean lots of feminists thinking sub women are sick and wrong. (Which is highly hypocritical of them, BTW, because part of feminism entails the right to do what you please with your own Goddamn body- even if that means enjoying a man causing you pain and doing what he pleases with you!)

I'm not sure when there will start to be more (straight) male subs. Men's roles are SLOWLY changing to be more androgynous, but I honestly think the world might end before it's acceptable for a man to have womanly qualities- even ones as basic as submissiveness.

Feel free to respectfully disagree, and of course tell me if I sounded rude or offended anyone. I sure didn't mean to- I just wanted to be frank to get a point across. LOL.

What is your gender and position?

What is your gender and position? :)

Female Domme

Female sub

Female switch

Male Dom

Male Sub

Male Switch

Other Dom

Other sub

Other switch

Hopehavoc

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priya

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MasterInTraining

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Tumbl3

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TerribleT

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Dom-me

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Zandar

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breathe49

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stefpost666

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Foreverbunny91

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