I wasn't certain whether to put this here or in the Open area, so I guessed. I realise there can be no single defenition of what makes anyone bisexual, as no doubt everyone has different views on what does and doesn't consist of, but I'm trying to understand where I stand on the matter. Whenever I try to do this for anything, I find it helps to have other opinions. Essentially, what I'm trying to understand is at what point do you consider to be the end of straight/gay/lesbian, and the start of Bisexual? Does just having fantasies about the other gender count? Does having a 'cyber' relationship, BDSM or not, and having a cyber-experience count? Or does it mean actually having an experience, or feelings for someone of both genders? As I said, I realise it's hardly a black-and-white issue, but I'm more interested in people's standpoints on it.