So I have a few questions for male submissives with female masters and female masters with male submissives. The only real purpose of this is to gauge whats the norm, for my own curiosity and maybe to give me a few ideas to suggest to my sub/mistress for next time we switch. Although these questions are directed at the above mentioned groups anyone else can feel can feel free to comment if they want to. 1. What does your mistress like to be called ?/ what do you like to be called ? 2. How often does anal penetration come into your play and is it an important part of it ? 3. What is your favorite thing to do during play ? 4. Is cross-dressing ever involved in your play and if so is it a constant or is it just occasional ? 5. Is asphyxiation via face-sitting ever involved in your play ? and is it uses as a punishment or a reward ? 6. Has another man in a dominant role ever been involved in your play ? 7. If the above is yes was the dominant man playing with the submissive or was he just there for the mistress's pleasure ? 8. If question 6 is no would you like a dominant man to be involved in your play and if so what would you have him doing ? 9. Is your kink gender specific i.e. do you only dominate men ? or do you only get dominated by women ? 10. Is pain and or humiliation involved in your play ? and if so does it play a key role ? 11. Do you like you submissive to have very little if any body hair ? / does your mistress like you to have very little if any body hair ? That's all I can think of for now I hope the list isn't too long and I look forward to your answers.