sebastian
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It gets tiresome sorting through the fakers and losers to find the real kinksters. As the saying goes, "you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince". But if being submissive is important to you, don't give up. Put up ads on dating sites that are specific about what you want and what your basic limits are, and be clear that you want a dom who will get to know you and build trust before demanding that you obey. A good profile will help you weed out some of the chaff, but you're still gonna run into guys who don't understand what being dominant is about or who lie about what they want or can do.
I guarantee you that there are genuine doms out there like that--I'm one (but sadly, I play for the other team). Genuine, experienced doms understand that they have to demonstrate trustworthiness before they get what they want. As one boy recently put it to me, they command respect rather than demand respect. Some genuine but inexperienced doms may be misled by the porn into thinking they need to be demanding, so don't totally write off a guy who makes a demand or two; just do what you did in this case and explain that you need to feel more trust.
By the way, someone already wrote the kinky BJD, it's called Bitchy Jones' Diary; it's a feminist take on being a domme.
I guarantee you that there are genuine doms out there like that--I'm one (but sadly, I play for the other team). Genuine, experienced doms understand that they have to demonstrate trustworthiness before they get what they want. As one boy recently put it to me, they command respect rather than demand respect. Some genuine but inexperienced doms may be misled by the porn into thinking they need to be demanding, so don't totally write off a guy who makes a demand or two; just do what you did in this case and explain that you need to feel more trust.
By the way, someone already wrote the kinky BJD, it's called Bitchy Jones' Diary; it's a feminist take on being a domme.
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