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Mine is blood... Unfortunately, its something that ML won't indulge me in so I really haven't been able to try much...
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Shame, Shame, Shame!
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I've read and heard many arguments against female submission, porn, and all sorts of other fantastic, sexy things that fall under that "feminism" or "intelligence" category. Truth be told, what you do inside your own head or bedroom has nothing to do with feminism, intelligence, or anything else that can be classified by other people or society. What YOU do in bed (or in your head) can only affect YOU, and you need to let yourself believe that. Gang bang, rape, snuff, whatever fantasies that you indulge in or live out will never come into light in a way that affects feminism, liberation, or your intelligence... Unless, perhaps, you're unsafe and suffer some sort of injury?? 
You mentioned "disrespecting yourself," but it sort of begs the question: if you judge yourself and don't allow yourself to be free in fantasy, isn't that just about the biggest disrespect (and anti-feminist, really) that you could serve to yourself?
I'm super new to this, really, but I've been dabbling in it (and begging for it-- haha) for years, and it took me quite a while to come to terms with many (most?) of my fantasies. I have come to realize that I am what I am, and that (just like everything else in life) there are SO many people out there ready to judge me that I should be one of the few who doesn't.
I truly believe that allowing myself to explore this darker side of me has freed me in so many ways-- not just in terms of sexuality. I have plenty of friends who are die-hard feminists, who would think that what I do, what I'm interested in, etc. is just plain WRONG and counter-productive to the whole feminist movement... But, if I'm an intelligent, liberated, feminist woman who supports other women's and my own freedoms, aren't THEY the ones in the "wrong" for judging me and trying to kill my sexual freedom?
Sorry for the ramble, but it's a topic that plagued me and still produces some frustration now... clearly. Haha.
Bottom line is, if there's someone interested in the things you are, who is a GOOD and stable person, that person will respect you whether you have these fantasies or not, and you need to as well I do!
You mentioned "disrespecting yourself," but it sort of begs the question: if you judge yourself and don't allow yourself to be free in fantasy, isn't that just about the biggest disrespect (and anti-feminist, really) that you could serve to yourself?
I'm super new to this, really, but I've been dabbling in it (and begging for it-- haha) for years, and it took me quite a while to come to terms with many (most?) of my fantasies. I have come to realize that I am what I am, and that (just like everything else in life) there are SO many people out there ready to judge me that I should be one of the few who doesn't.
I truly believe that allowing myself to explore this darker side of me has freed me in so many ways-- not just in terms of sexuality. I have plenty of friends who are die-hard feminists, who would think that what I do, what I'm interested in, etc. is just plain WRONG and counter-productive to the whole feminist movement... But, if I'm an intelligent, liberated, feminist woman who supports other women's and my own freedoms, aren't THEY the ones in the "wrong" for judging me and trying to kill my sexual freedom?
Sorry for the ramble, but it's a topic that plagued me and still produces some frustration now... clearly. Haha.
Bottom line is, if there's someone interested in the things you are, who is a GOOD and stable person, that person will respect you whether you have these fantasies or not, and you need to as well
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Aisling, you are aroused by these things precisely because they violate what you have been taught. They are the forbidden fruit that tastes more sweet because it is forbidden. If your parents had taught you that men were superior to women, you would probably have a dom streak in you and fantasize about domming your husband.
Also, remember that you are consenting to be gang raped or whatever. You are playing the tourist, not living in that place. So you are still equal with your partners, because you could stop the action at any time by withdrawing your consent.
Also, remember that you are consenting to be gang raped or whatever. You are playing the tourist, not living in that place. So you are still equal with your partners, because you could stop the action at any time by withdrawing your consent.
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First, your feelings are your feelings and they don't have to make sense.
They are based on your biology, culture, and life experiences. They are real even if not logical (and I am a highly logical person.)
You CAN change feelings (and phobias etc) but sometimes those reactions are doing something POSITIVE for you.
As was already pointed out, you might be getting your enjoyment specifically because of this conflict between these feelings and your enjoyment of the moment.
You have yourself at least alluded to the possibility (which makes it likely the case until proven otherwise) that your feeling are protecting your from 'going to far' or from 'messing up your professional life'.
Unless and until you can ensure that you won't lose anything significant be careful of changing your feelings (NLP and hypnosis can easily make such changes.)
As an analogy: When removing a fear of heights one doesn't want to end up as a daredevil -- just get rid of the unreasoning fear that would prevent SAFELY enjoying an observation deck or skyscraper restaurant view, not (necessarily) join the circus to work on the high wire without a net.
As with everything there are grey areas. A fear of heights might prevent someone from going off the high dive or platform -- diving is generally safe if done correctly but CAN be dangerous and having a (phobia as) check on it might be protecting SOME people from real danger.
As always, your mileage not only can vary, but almost certainly will vary.
They are based on your biology, culture, and life experiences. They are real even if not logical (and I am a highly logical person.)
You CAN change feelings (and phobias etc) but sometimes those reactions are doing something POSITIVE for you.
As was already pointed out, you might be getting your enjoyment specifically because of this conflict between these feelings and your enjoyment of the moment.
You have yourself at least alluded to the possibility (which makes it likely the case until proven otherwise) that your feeling are protecting your from 'going to far' or from 'messing up your professional life'.
Unless and until you can ensure that you won't lose anything significant be careful of changing your feelings (NLP and hypnosis can easily make such changes.)
As an analogy: When removing a fear of heights one doesn't want to end up as a daredevil -- just get rid of the unreasoning fear that would prevent SAFELY enjoying an observation deck or skyscraper restaurant view, not (necessarily) join the circus to work on the high wire without a net.
As with everything there are grey areas. A fear of heights might prevent someone from going off the high dive or platform -- diving is generally safe if done correctly but CAN be dangerous and having a (phobia as) check on it might be protecting SOME people from real danger.
As always, your mileage not only can vary, but almost certainly will vary.
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