I have always had a mild interest in the world of BDSM but never personally experienced it. Recently I have met this boy who seems to only be able to experience pleasure when a little roughness is involved! My problem is that usually when my mind wanders to the subject I am the girl on the recieving end. I am mildly timid about sexual acts because I want everyone to be pleased but I am afraid to hurt them. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I should go about trying to seriously get into BDSM, not just for the boy but myself as well??