I don't even have to announce it for y'all to know it, do I? But hi, Newbie here. 18, bi, male, dominant switch. I've been interested for quite some time in the craft of BDSM, and- as we all here, at some point, I'm sure- have been found wanting for experience. (Save what sessions and discussions I've had with my dear boy -18,FTM,sub) I am reaching out for help because quite recently, much to my own shame, I've noticed within my self a rather unruly urge has been growing, an urge to dominate him. Above and beyond the chamber, as it were. We've been together since March (though involved a little longer), but this past week we separated due to several issues, things such as communication and dedication. We're still slightly involved, but he's on thin ice about staying. I've read- and reasoned- that bdsm relationships are stronger and more involved than vanilla ones, which leaves me struggling for an answer to the predicament I find myself in. I do not want to lose him. I know I cannot control him (the cruel irony does not escape me, I assure you). I want to introduce him to all of this, to more than just hand-binding and breath play, yet at the same time I feel as if I am quite close to being in over my head. I guess that is my question- Am I?