sebastian
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One of the things that has surprised me as I've gotten into being dominant (and started doing all the research and reading that it requires) is that the vast majority of material that I've found on the web comes at d/s from a heterosexual viewpoint. If you google phrases like 'gay bdsm', most of what you find is simply porn. About the only solid material I've found from a gay perspective is Jack Rinella's work, and occasional threads on forums. So I'm wondering two things.
1) Does anyone have any recommendations about books or sites that discuss the issues that arise for gay bdsm couples? Or for that matter, does anyone have any advice on this subject?
2) Why is most of the material from a heterosexual perspective? Is this a real issue, or am I just looking in the wrong place? Obviously, there's the fact that straights grossly outnumber gays, but given how willing most gays are to discuss their sexual practices, I would have thought they would be more vocal about d/s activity.
As always, thoughts and comments are greatly appreciated.
1) Does anyone have any recommendations about books or sites that discuss the issues that arise for gay bdsm couples? Or for that matter, does anyone have any advice on this subject?
2) Why is most of the material from a heterosexual perspective? Is this a real issue, or am I just looking in the wrong place? Obviously, there's the fact that straights grossly outnumber gays, but given how willing most gays are to discuss their sexual practices, I would have thought they would be more vocal about d/s activity.
As always, thoughts and comments are greatly appreciated.
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