Gay Doms?

sebastian

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One of the things that has surprised me as I've gotten into being dominant (and started doing all the research and reading that it requires) is that the vast majority of material that I've found on the web comes at d/s from a heterosexual viewpoint. If you google phrases like 'gay bdsm', most of what you find is simply porn. About the only solid material I've found from a gay perspective is Jack Rinella's work, and occasional threads on forums. So I'm wondering two things.
1) Does anyone have any recommendations about books or sites that discuss the issues that arise for gay bdsm couples? Or for that matter, does anyone have any advice on this subject?
2) Why is most of the material from a heterosexual perspective? Is this a real issue, or am I just looking in the wrong place? Obviously, there's the fact that straights grossly outnumber gays, but given how willing most gays are to discuss their sexual practices, I would have thought they would be more vocal about d/s activity.

As always, thoughts and comments are greatly appreciated.
 
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sebastian

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I'm familiar with the leather subculture, and at least vaguely familiar with its history. But in my research, I simply haven't run across that much actual writing by those in it. I was really quite surprised that I didn't find pages and forums for gay d/sers. Have I simply managed to miss them in my googling?

When I do searches like 'gay bdsm' and so on, most of what I get is sites that just host porn. Some of it is quite nice porn, but it doesn't offer much in the way of advice or guidance. For example, I have found nothing like Mistress 160's BDSM for Beginners from a gay perspective (although I have found a page or two that discusses puppy play).
 
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sebastian

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I realize that. My point is that almost everything that comes up if you google 'gay bdsm' is porn. I have yet to find a site like this one with forums that discuss bdsm stuff from a gay perspective. Finding gay bondage porn is easy; finding intelligent discussion of gay bdsm practice is pretty difficult. This simply surprises me, so I suspect that I'm missing the right keyword or something. God knows gay men love talking about sex, so there has got to be a forum for gay d/s'ers out there somewhere.
 
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