Well after having a baby, and the recovery afterwards, I haven't been able to do anything sexy and fun for what feels like a lifetime. The end of the pregnancy were rough physically (hip/pelvis pain so bad ended up using crutches!) so we didnt have sex or do anything at all for months. I now feel like a dog on heat and am actually a little worried that I wont be able to control myself when the time comes and be so pent up that I will push it too much and end up letting things get out of control in terms of pain etc. I don't think I would stop him doing much of anything at the moment just to be physical with him again. How pathetic is that?! How do you control yourself after a lull/sexual dry spell? We have gotten pretty near the mark in terms of roughness and intensity in the past but I don't want to freak him out with how wild I will likely want to get. He has taken on a lot and come so far since I opened up to him I don't want to ruin things and scare him.