I'm scared out of my mind to talk to someone about this but I have a serious problem. I'm a female 38 year old happily married woman but I fave a huge sexual issue that I've had all of my sexual life. I don't know why I'm here except to say maybe I'm intrigued? Curious? I will just come out and say, I have never experienced an orgasm with a sexual partner in my life. I can do this on my own when I'm alone but not with someone. Even if I try while I'm having sex, it doesn't work. Never has. NEVER!!!!! My husband knows about this and has accepted it as I have but I can't stop thinking about what it would be like. I feel as though I'm probably a submissive person cause I love to have my hands restrained and being told what to do. The only problem is, my husband only restrains my hands with his own for a brief second and doesn't like bossing me. Another thing, which is probably the biggest problem yet is, I am extremely modest. I have never let another man see my body, including my husband. I always have sex in the pitch black and he seems okay with this. It's not that I'm ashamed of what I look like cause I'm only 98 pounds but it terrifies me. I do not know why. My friends know this about me and think it's weird as hell. I can't believe it sometimes myself but it's the gods honest truth. I've been married for 10 years and he's NEVER seen me naked. I don't know if any of you have any advice but I didn't know where else to go. I've battled with this problem a lifetime it seems. HELP if you can.