Hi, I used to post a lot a while ago but we had to put things on hold because of health problems. I still lurk around lots though! Basically we are trying to start again in entering a bedroom only D/s relationship within our marriage. My husband had asked me to look for some good movies to watch together. We have watched Secretary but I want something different. I've searched the internet for hours but can't find anything that really shows the underlying aspects of BDSM if that makes sense? As my husband is very new to being a dom I just wanted something that might give him an understanding of the relationship aswell as just the physical side. At the same time I want it to keep him interested if you get my meaning! I don't feel like I'm explaining myself very well! But does anyone have any suggestions? We're both pretty new to it all and although I've read loads my husband is only just beginning to research (loads of my past posts have been about this!) and I feel loads of the stuff on the internet I've seen so far are way out of our depths as beginners and as I said don't really show the dynamics of it all. Thanks for reading.