Have any of you dom(me)s out there...

Amuk · May 23, 2009

It's an even bigger shame when it just has to do with something that could have been easily avoided. Too bad I didn't know in advance about it because I could have prevented it had she told me. What it was though, I'm not going to say, but it's not that big of a deal. Except for the fact that it means we're not together anymore.

Either way, life goes on. I'll find a new sub...some day. Have no clue about any of the people around me. Nonetheless where I could go to meet another.

Sparrow69 · May 23, 2009

Amuk said:
...Have no clue about any of the people around me. Nonetheless where I could go to meet another.

I'm going to suggest either here, or FetLife... both are very good places to look.

Amuk · May 23, 2009

Sparrow69 said:
I'm going to suggest either here, or FetLife... both are very good places to look.

Alright, well, I'll take a look sooner or later. But I'm going to wait until after Summer probably. Or at least until July. I'll be gone through half of June, so it'd be easier to wait.

Thanks for the help though, Sparrow.

Sparrow69 · May 24, 2009

no problem.

Sparrow69 · May 24, 2009

This threads original topic was...

Prissy said:
Had a slave that was very submissive, but wouldn't obey orders?

If so, how have you made them listen to them?

subspace · May 24, 2009

The original question is confusing, b/c how can you be really submissive if you don't obey?

Sashalust · May 24, 2009

I don't see a sub being really submissive and yet not obeying....I agree with subspace on how it is confusing since the two contradict one another. You are a sub you are submissive, which is why you are a sub in the first place. If you fight back or disobey then I'm not sure what you are other then perhaps someone who was kidnapped against their will and forced into complacence, though even then over time that person would become submissive as they begin to identify with their captors.

But hypothetically if I had a sub who was not submissive and continued to fight against me I would simply end it and move on. I don't have time to deal with insolent adults, I have enough time dealing with stubborn misbehaving children then to waste my time dealing with an adult who is suppose to already know their place in this relationship. I would probably take great pleasure in removing them from my home should they have left everything of their own to come and live with me. Send them out on an errand then while they were gone remove all evidence of them ever having lived there. All of their stuff would be piled up at the curb awaiting trash pick up and I would even go so far as to have the locks changed. When they got back they would see their stuff on the curb be in a panic and then come rushing to the door and when their key would not work they would of course bang frantically on the door. I would answer it and act like I had never before seen them and then asked them to get off my property before I called the cops. So now where they would of had a comfortable life with no worries as I would have insured they had everything, now they are homeless without a job or a car and no family because they would of had to given them up to be with me.

I'm sure from then on in life they would learn their place and hopefully would know better for their next Master/Mistress.

I'm kind to my subs because they know their place and respect me, the moment they start to forget this they are no longer worth my time and so I no longer want them.

Prissy · May 24, 2009

What I was getting at, was, some people are submissive by nature, however other thngs may cause them to react in a not so submissive behavior. In such cases they may act out of turn, more often than a, umm, "regular" submissive. In that case, what would you do to ensure the submissive side will be around most of the time.

Sashalust · May 24, 2009

Either way if it continued for more then a couple of months I would be rid of the sub.

Though I am interested in these 'things' you speak of.....give some examples to what would cause this sub to act out of turn.

Prissy · May 24, 2009

Having somewhat of a spitfire type personality, Not liking hard surfaces, and asking for something soft. Umm, Even though the thought was more pleasure for master, asking for the sessions, to either start earlier, or last longer, certain things along those libnes.

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