Gilgland
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I am new to the scene and I am trying to figure out where, and what role I fit into best. I know I am not a submissive but that only cuts out half of a great many possibilities. If any one knows what to call it when,in the bedroom and the relationship I want us both to have a good time but ultimately put my partner's desires before mine and my goal is to make sure the other person is having fun and being fulfilled, but I like tieing the other person to the bed, watching them look up at me from their knees, spanking them, and being the one doing the giving, let me know cause I haven't really figured it out yet. Ultimately I want an equal with submissive tastes I guess lol.
Any help would be much appreciated. I just got out of a relationship after a year and a half because I was cheated on and the reason that was given was that she was tired of waiting on me to be a full blown Dom. asking if she was ok, and wanting her to make a list of things she was interested in trying. One thing that terrifies me is the thought of hurting someone I care about and that is why I did all of that in that relationship.
I must note that I have been curious about BDSM stuff for years but this was my first sexual relationship. She has made it clear after the fact that she wants to be a slave but I am not the kind of person to be the master type. I like my partner and I to have equal say in what we do in and out of the bedroom. I am open to the fact I may be a Dom. or top that just hasn't had enough experience to be comfortable taking charge and I think that may be the case.
Again i am a bit confused as to where I might fit in or what to call what I am. If any one else has gone through this or has insight on it and could give some advice that would be amazing.
-Thank you
Any help would be much appreciated. I just got out of a relationship after a year and a half because I was cheated on and the reason that was given was that she was tired of waiting on me to be a full blown Dom. asking if she was ok, and wanting her to make a list of things she was interested in trying. One thing that terrifies me is the thought of hurting someone I care about and that is why I did all of that in that relationship.
I must note that I have been curious about BDSM stuff for years but this was my first sexual relationship. She has made it clear after the fact that she wants to be a slave but I am not the kind of person to be the master type. I like my partner and I to have equal say in what we do in and out of the bedroom. I am open to the fact I may be a Dom. or top that just hasn't had enough experience to be comfortable taking charge and I think that may be the case.
Again i am a bit confused as to where I might fit in or what to call what I am. If any one else has gone through this or has insight on it and could give some advice that would be amazing.
-Thank you
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