I am currently playing with a new dom, and our interests and limits mainly seem to align, with one major exception. He has on more than one occasion asked me to do things that I feel would involve others in our sex play, and without their consent. i.e. he asked me 'if I would' walk naked through the apartment he lives in, when his female flatmate was at home. On another occasion he asked me to have sex with another guy and secretly film it for him. I don't have a problem with playing with others, I just like to know that others are interested first! I would have no problem being humiliated in front of his flatmate if I knew she had agreed to it, or making sex films with a guy as long as he knew what was going to happen with the video. Am I being oversensitive here? He says in the first case he was just asking to see how much I would obey him and wouldn't have actually made me to do it. In the second case he thinks I'm just trying to find excuses not to do it (because finding a guy who agrees to the video bit will be more difficult than just finding someone who agrees to sleep with me). Any thoughts? Advice?