Discussion in 'General BDSM discussions' started by Nyx, Jun 1, 2009.

  1. Nyx

    Nyx Member

    This one is mostly for dom(me)'s and masters although subs are welcome to relate their experiences!

    If your slave/bottom has disobeyed you would you prefer that they come to you with a confession or wait until you have asked if they obeyed you?

    Also, what are some ways you have helped discourage forgetfulness? That seems to be my biggest issue when completing tasks for my master.

    Any comments or advice would be apprecaited. :)
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  2. Sparrow69

    Sparrow69 Moderator

    I would be more lienent and prefer it if they came and told me. as a matter of fact, if its the first time, there may be no punishment at all, as I will strive to help them be better.

    As far as helping them remember things, two words, day planner.
  3. Nyx

    Nyx Member

    Heh, yeah, I should probably be writing down my tasks. He's hinted that it would be wise of me but I just haven't yet.

    Unfortunately I'm pretty sure I'm in store for a punishment as this isn't my first time disobeying in this particular manner.

    But it does make sense that you'd rather a sub come to you then have to force them to confess.
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  4. EZRA

    EZRA Member

    Confession is definitely more subservient than waiting for your DOM to figure it out.
    That smacks of trying to get away with it, "Maybe they won,t notice".
    but if your trying to irritate them I bet "not fessing up "works pretty well.

    note to self, thank subspace for suggesting google spell check on tool bar.
  5. Prissy

    Prissy Member

    Master punishes me either way, but it seems less when I openly admit to it....
  6. MagisterFruiticitum

    MagisterFruiticitum New Member

    I much prefer it when my sub comes to me and confesses, although the "I have a confession to make but I'd like to say the specifics later" I've been getting lately is the same thing as me having to figure it out in my mind. My punishments are more lenient when I am told what happened rather than figuring it out for myself (which, as Nyx can attest, is a difference of about five minutes usually).
  7. Nyx

    Nyx Member

    Sorry, master. I won't repeat that mistake.

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