Hello, I am vanilla and my wonderful husband of several years is, as I just found out, a submissive. This appears to be an important part of his sexuality which he has been supressing/hiding so far for a fear of my reaction. I am very open and tolerant of his sexual preferences, I love him dearly and am otherwise very happy in our marriage, but I have no interest in participating. It just doesn't turn me on; if anything, I myself am a bit on a submissive side. Can our relationship last? Would it work if he would occasionally visit a Dom and/or various clubs where he could satisfy this part of his sexuality? More egoistically - can he ever really enjoy a vanilla sex with me? Will he always need to imagine he is somewhere else in order to have an orgasm? Will he get bored with time? Any advice, personal experiences, honest opinions... would be very helpful. Thank you!