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So, I'm plum fresh new to BDSM, but after my boyfriend and I had been telling eachother our darker fantasies and started doing some more rough foreplay, I thought there should be a safeword... And I had the brilliant idea of making the safeword be "safeword." You can't really forget it!!
I also brought up the color system to my boyfriend- he said "Oh, that sounds cool... Except let's use banana, grapefruit and peas!" (or something along those lines)... which since we both have bad memories that might ruin the point of a safeword.
I have a tilted cervix, so I've had to tell him to stop fucking me a lot... And he often gets a bit *too* into spanking, and when I'm not into it, I actually notice the pain. In this case, he usually stops when I say "ouch!" and pull away, or "MOTHER FUCKER!!!" LOL. But "stop" and "no" aren't really things that work for me, since our first real venture included a lot of me saying "No, Daddy, no!" He's showed an interest in submission, too, and I just want to make sure he knows I will stop whenever he needs me to, since he's somewhat timid to try it. His kinkier fantasies include some face-riding, so unless I want to be bit/thrown, I'm going to have to figure out what works as a non-verbal safeword. I'll ask him about possibly using a toy.
We've also always had a "keep going" or "more" signal... We scratch at eachother in a "Gimme, gimme" motion. No idea how we got to doing this, but it works. So when I'm saying "No, please stop!" and scratching at the same time, he knows I mean I want him to punish me more
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