What's your safe word?

Discussion in 'Safety aspects of BDSM' started by subspace, Nov 10, 2009.

  1. sebastian

    sebastian Active Member

    A safe toy is an object held by the sub; dropping it signals a need to stop play. It's most commonly used when the sub is gagged and cannot speak easily, but it can also be useful with a sub who tends to get so lost in subspace that s/he forgets to safe word. A sub that far out of it will often drop the toy
     
  2. Many thanks Sebastian - I love learning new stuff
     
  3. YMIB

    YMIB New Member

    "buzz lightyear". It's silly; the first object I saw in his room was a Woody doll but "Woody" could be misleading.
     
  4. Dark McArthur

    Dark McArthur New Member

    The most common safeword I've heard from models and subs is "red". I had one girl who during a shoot where she was gagged used the first bars of Beethovens fifth. I use "lobster" myself.
     
  5. straponfen

    straponfen Active Member

    I like "Fist Me bitch"
     
  6. KayleeKakes

    KayleeKakes New Member

    I use apples! I haven't used a ball gag yet, but I think I'll probably hold a ball and drop it.
     
  7. Goddess_Jessy

    Goddess_Jessy Member

    It's very simple. My slave says: "Stop my mistress" and i'm stopped.
     
  8. AxeCrazy

    AxeCrazy New Member

    "gumdrops". she asked me to come up with one and that's all i could come up with. i was slightly...preoccupied at the time, hahah. so, that's the story of our stupid safeword. xD
     
  9. MrPink

    MrPink New Member

    When speaking is possible "stop" and "easy" work well enough to cease activity or ease down the action, respectively. Otherwise safety measures vary from scenario to scenario, testing whatever seems to work in a given situation.
     
  10. Oklahoma, all the way. I love Jackass, which is why that's our safe word, though I've never used it ;)
     
    Last edited: Aug 2, 2012
  11. Smallest

    Smallest Moderator

    Sweetnothings, the darker purple is really hard to read, for future reference. It might just be my monitor though
     
  12. Roland

    Roland Member

    We use:

    Steam - I'm almost at my limit so be cautious
    Pressure - It's too intense now...slow down / ease off
    Feather - STOP!
     
  13. MrWolfgang

    MrWolfgang Member

    Nice Roland. She uses Black for stop and Vanilla for slowdown. Shes only had to use them once so...Ill take that as not bad. Shes a trooper.

    Oh and by the way....thank you to whoever bumped this thread so I didnt have to look at the last threads title ("Is shit eating harmfull...") every time I got on here. Lol. Thank ya.
     
  14. BA19

    BA19 New Member

    I think that a safe word if I was subbing would defeat the purpose. I'd probably just blurt it out to see how far they'd go, and would be honestly disappointed if they dropped the whole thing.
     
  15. Smallest

    Smallest Moderator

    But that's not what a safe word is for. Sure you could do that, but the point is that if something goes absolutely wrong or bad, you have a stop that they can absolutely understand. It's not a matter of not submitting or pushing the dom, it's an emergency stop.
     

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