Hi... This is my first post here and I am new in the forum. I would be grateful if members could help me figure out what I am. I basically (at one point) thought I was a Dom, because when I was younger and watched any BDSM porn, I would always prefer the dominant roles if I had to visualize myself in any. In real life, my sex life has been quite Vanilla, although I do enjoy leading, tying up and blindfolding my partner. I like orgasm torture and plays of that nature, but not really into physically hurting someone (no bruising, burning etc). I do however, think small levels of humiliation (knowing that the person wants to be humiliated) pleases me. Any ideas? Thanks!