Hi, my name is Gen, and I am here to ask for some advice if thats possible. In normal day to day life I am a very confident and opinionated person but in regards to anything sexual I am totally submissive. I met my partner 5 years a go and we developed a closeness through telling each other our intimate desires. He has always fantasised about dominating women. However he is a very shy person and even after almost 5 years together he still lacks confidence and so is afraid to experiment. I have yet to have the opportunity to fully explore the extent of my fantasies and want nothing more than to do that with my current partner. How can I help him feel more confident? He does have mild anger issues and I am certain that if he could chanel them into our sex life it would be the best outlet for him. On occasion he has pushed the boundaries further than our mildly Ds normality but as of late we have only had completely vanilla sex. I crave a relationship where I am fulfilled sexually and although I am not certain to what extent I wish to sumit I do know that I need so much more than what I currently have. If you have any advice at all it would be much appreciated.