Hi Please advise me. I am new to the scene and have not yet had any experiences. However I know that this draws me like an unstoppable force and my mind is in torture until I start down the path. My problem is I don't know what I am. I am late 40s. I am absolutely not submissive and I am not switch so that eliminates those two areas of descriptions. But there are so many titles to confuse me : Dominant Dom Master Sir Sadomasochist Daddy To explain - I do not want a wife/ partner as I have one. I am very much about control. I want a submissive that to spend time with by email/ Skype etc. and in real sessions. I want to play with, train, punish (but not severely so I guess I can rule out the title of sadomasochist.). I want to abuse her verbally and play with her mind. Her pleasure will be my main goal, and it will thrill me. I will also want sexual satisfaction. If required, I also want to provide emotional support and again if required be a friend I also have the desire to find a Daddy's girl, to nurture, play with, and teach her a lesson, physical and mental. Again satisfaction both ways is important. So what am I? How do I describe myself?