The random chat/off topic thread

Smallest · Mar 9, 2012

Yeah, despite BDSM being common, so's that attitude- one of my friends (the one who took tall and I out last weekend) told me her ex found her being a domme 'scary.'

yo018 · Apr 17, 2012

BDSM is on fire guys.

kato · Apr 17, 2012

Smallest said:
Yeah, despite BDSM being common, so's that attitude- one of my friends (the one who took tall and I out last weekend) told me her ex found her being a domme 'scary.'

There's a difference between being scared and being judgemental though. I have found myself in bed with doms before and it was scary indeed. Also I sometimes enjoy that males in general find me scary... I am trying to learn how to tell when they are scared plus interested vs just scared.

I guess your friend's comment implies that her ex was being judgemental as well as scared, so I went off on a tangent a bit there. I really hate it when I'm expected to be submissive because I'm (loosely speaking) a woman.

RopeRanger · Apr 26, 2012

kato said:
.. I am trying to learn how to tell when they are scared plus interested vs just scared.

Just thinking out loud here... I can imagine that's a tough situation. Submissive women seem to be very attracted to Dom men while men are taught that they are not supposed to be submissive and I expect would tend to run rather than admit they are attracted/scared.

While I'm not even remotely submissive I am very attacked to dominate women. I find them hot, not scary. But unfortunately the times I've connected with one it always turns out like a Klingon mating ritual as neither of us are willing to bend.

sebastian · May 6, 2012

Yeah, but Klingons mating can be pretty hot.

kato · May 13, 2012

Thanks for making me laugh, guys! I will pass on the klingon analogy to my dearest dom friend who I was doing exactly that with a little while ago.

Update on the interested and scared v just scared project: I recently went after a guy who kind of seemed both things at once, but basically ran away from me. This was over a year ago, in South America, and now I showed up in his hometown, in Sweden. Fuck, he was scared. But it seems he is a bit interested, or at least I saw some physical proof of such before he ran away again. Ha.

A1kon · May 19, 2012

Some fanny storie:

Woman: Is there a problem, Officer?

Officer: Ma'am, you were speeding.

Woman: Oh, I see.

Officer: Can I see your license please?

Woman: I'd give it to you but I don't have one.

Officer: Don't have one?

Woman: Lost it 4 times for drunk driving.

Officer: I see...Can I see your vehicle registration papers please.

Woman: I can't do that.

Officer: Why not?

Woman: I stole this car.

Officer: Stole it?

Woman: Yes, and I killed and hacked up the owner.

Officer: You what?

Woman: His body parts are in plastic bags in the trunk if you want to see.

The Officer looks at the woman, slowly backs away to his car, and calls for back up. Within minutes 5 police cars circle the car. A senior officer slowly approaches the car, clasping his half drawn gun.

Officer 2: Ma'am, could you step out of your vehicle
please!

The woman steps out of her vehicle.

Woman: Is there a problem sir?

Officer 2: One of my officers told me that you have stolen this car and murdered the owner.

Woman: Murdered the owner?

Officer 2: Yes, could you please open the trunk of your car, please.

The woman opens the trunk, revealing nothing but an empty trunk.

Officer 2: Is this your car, ma'am?

Woman: Yes, here are the registration papers.

The first officer is stunned.

Officer 2: One of my officers claims that you do not have a driving license.

The woman digs into her handbag and pulls out a clutch purse and hands it to the officer. The officer snaps open the clutch purse and examines the license. He looks quite puzzled.

Officer 2: Thank you ma'am, one of my officers told me you didn't have a license, that you stole this car, and that you murdered and hacked up the owner.

Woman: Betcha the lying bastard told you I was speeding too.

Fractal · May 21, 2012

^That was pretty good aha XD!

Tumbl3 · May 22, 2012

Seb: XD that's fair

So puppy and I are no longer together. It's a good thing. I've realized quite a few important things from our relationship ending.

sebastian · May 27, 2012

Tumble: Sorry to hear it, although it sounds like it wasn't too ugly a break-up. What have you learned?

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