MIRROR: Download from MEGA Click Here! Several Domâ€™s on the forum this week have mentioned the fact that they have a difficult time reaching orgasm. Do you think this has anything to do with being a Dom? I guess I am wondering if it makes you a better Dom. My first guess is that it allows you to concentrate on your sub and keeps the scene from ending too soon (so my issue in life!). My biggest frustration is that once my Top cums the scene is almost always over, for me they are over way too soon and think it would be so nice to have more attention paid to my orgasm than his. Do you think that not having to constantly be worried that you are going to cum allows a Dom much more control than if you were constantly thinking about your own orgasm?