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@Sebastian: You could consider that outing and I see your logic, but personally, I just consider that life. To me, outing is explaining yourself to someone in my mind. Most gay people I know live exactly like that, with rings, pictures, public affection and casual mentions. It does lead to a raised eyebrow at times, but for the most part my impression is that the casual way they handle their sexuality actually helps people to accept it.
If there is one thing I can't stand, its people who define themselves through their sexuality exclusively in public. Be gay all you want, but introducing yourself by saying: "Hi, Im Bob and Im gay" (replace with gay with other interests if applicable) is plain bad. I've known a few guys and girls like that and it always felt weird because every decision they make or interest they had seemed to be based in their sexuality. If you like movies, like movies, don't like movies because your x. Our sexuality is a huge part of our life, but its not the only one and its a private one. None should have to hide it, but you should also respect the fact that some people are uncomfortable with sexuality in general or one specific direction in particular.
On the other hand, a fun story about intolerance: My fiance, a gay couple and me were driving and some other car was closing in on us and fast. (Lets call the couple Jack and John) He had lots of room to overtake us, but for some reason insisted on staying stuck to my bumper. Jack and John were in the back and after a few moments I said to myself "just overtake me, idiot". So everyone was looking through the back window and saw a couple of what we came to call "trendsetters". So Jack reached over and started kissing John passionately. Within seconds, the other care overtook us at full speed and raced off into the distance, while we were laughing all the way to our destination.
Now, while funny, it also shows a spectacular and sad amount of intolerance towards gays. My point however is, that even though Jack and John were shown intollerance in the most obvious of ways, neither of them cared for a single second.
As for your work Sebastian, being a teacher is somewhat different in my opinion. In a professional capacity, a teacher should be human but otherwise void of preferences in a political, religious or sexual while at work. Since they function as an example of impressionable and shapable minds, the idea is to allow them to make up their own minds rather than provide an example of what they could be. So, I wholeheardedly agree with your decision to keep your kink private there.
Finally: TV shows. There is a rather extended series of stories connected to BDSM in CSI:LasVegas. It starts out (I think) in season one and the dominatrix things revolve around is continually referenced and involved in later storylines. I always thought it interesting because unlike most, this show dealt with both spheres, the power exchange and most importantly, the concept of BDSM as something completely normal albeit different. They spend rather a lot time talking about BDSM as a sexual & social concept and very little time actually showing the kink stuff.
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