Hi everyone I am a girl who is almost 20 and I have been with my boyfriend since I was 16. I am looking for people who can give me advice and also talk to me about BDSM in general. I am a very submissive girl naturally even outside of the bedroom, I am very feminine cook, clean, etc. I love to do everything my man says since he is very good to me. He also likes traditional girls who are the submissive one in the relationship. I also naturally act younger than my age, I get most of my clothes from the little girls section since that is the size that fits me, I love ruffles, lace, the color pink, etc. I'm quite little girl-ish in my mannerisms. In contrast he is a quite dominant and while he likes to be the boss of me, he also cares for me and really gives me a lot of love. People think the relationship that we have is wrong because we are not "equals." But the people who think this are people who have terrible relationships, have been cheated on and treated badly before! In the bedroom we do a bit of light bdsm behaviour, like he pulls my hair, bites me, spanks me, scratches my skin with his fingernails and I love all that stuff. He enjoys this quite a bit. We also do age play like he treats me as though I am a little girl. He is much more experienced sexually than I am. I would really like to up it a bit because I have been researching bdsm and I really like the way all of it sounds. When I talk to him about it he says he would feel bad if he hurt me. I want him to do more intense bdsm behaviour in the bedroom but he says he doesn't want to because he doesn't want to hurt me. What can I do or say? I would really like to try it with him. If you can give me advice I would appreciate it I want to start doing more bdsm stuff and I am quite new to it. Thanks alot!!!