Before I say who or what I want to say a few things:
As mentioned I have respected the freedom that has been allowed on here. I will honestly tell you all some things blew my mind, they just never occured to me, but I was never once offended. After giving them some thought, even if I didn't agree or it wouldn't be my kink I could at least understand how someone else might be into it.
Futhermore, I have had an appreciate for the people on this site making it clear that in reality the submissive it ultimately in control and not an abuse victum. Seb's intelligence, Slp's silliness, Jey's off-handed way of looking at things, De's insight, etc have all made this a great forum for me. I've never spent this much time even on a gaming forum.
But what I read in
http://www.smplace.com/forum/1874-d...aster-slave-relationship-under-true-love.html has disgusted me and frankly on more then one level.
- I am not religious and that's putting it mildly, but to each their own. But to have someone asking to sacrafice their life for the sake of love, I find it truely offensive. I am not so over-the-top to say that life is a gift but to suggest a romantic suicide pact is an
abomination to me.
- To suggest that one would kill himself over an imperfect first time is not only beyond my comprehension but it's fucking childish. Got news for you, it's messing and doesn't go perfectly at the best of times, life is messy, after 29 years you should jump out of your fantasy world and join the rest of us.
- "Once I've found my true love, we will, with time, take our lives, together, as she especially, but also I, could never become old." You selfish bastard to act like this is some romantic deed. You ramble on about true love and you have no idea what true love is. It doesn't fade with looks or age. It's about needing them with you, wanting to make their life better with your acts and words, it's about life being better when you're with them.
- "My slave would have to be much younger than me, as well..... youth and beauty is endlessly important, both for me and her. It is definitely not just because of that, though; the life after "death" is so much better than that in the present life, although I would still want to spend our time together in this life, as well, thus we wouldn't kill ourselves before after a few years." If youth and beauty is of so much importance to you, you don't detroy it with some bullshit vision of a romantic suicide. You treat it with love and respect, you don't destroy it in some warped twisted disillusioned suiside pact.
Does it occur to you wwhat this would do to your family? Friends? Her's? You don't need a true love, You need some fucking therapy.
This has NOTHING to do with my kink isn't yours or what this website stands for. The target of this site as far as I could see has mostly been about saftey,
suggesting moral guidlines, teaching and good plain sexual fun that is consenting and for the good of all. While his sexual requirements I have no real issue with, his opening paragraph is FAR from what I would consider smplace stands for.
This post is about someone who has serious bloody mental issues and little disguard for his own life or his supposed true loves. It's fine to be interested and comfortable in death but I DON'T and WILL never view it as ok to suggest destoying life is something you discuss like going for a long romantic walk on a beach.
Ultimately he is discussing in the eyes of the law, an illegal activity, we don't allow children or animals discussed, this should be no different.. Some of you MIGHT say well if she is consenting so be it. Can you all tell me you wouldn't stop someone from suicide? I doubt that very much. If you all had such a disguard for saftey and life you wouldn't be here discussing what you do.
Is the staff and community of this site really ok with that?
If you wish to block me from posting because of this, I understand. But I would PLEAD that you allow others in this community to read this and let them express themselves even if it's to disagree with me.
