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One of the best things you can do is create a sense of power imbalance; you have the power and she doesn't. So find things large and small that reinforce your superior position. Here are a few things you can do when you're playing. Among other things they indicate that you've moved from vanilla equality to power exchange.
1) She is naked, you are clothed. Forced nudity definitely creates a sense that one is in an inferior position. It's one of the reasons cops do strip searches.
2) She kneels while you stand or sit, or she stands while you sit. The former creates a visual imbalance in which she is literally below you; the later creates a comfort imbalance.
3) She addresses you as 'Sir' at all times, while you call her whatever you choose, as long as it's at least vaguely condescending. "sweetie, baby, pet" are affectionate, while 'bitch, whore, slave" are more explicitly degrading. If you're into hair-pulling, I'd recommend using degrading means of address.
4) You command; she requests and begs. Tell her what to do and don't say 'please' or 'thank you' (unless you can pull over the aristocratic trick of issue commands very politely); she on the other hand has to say please and thank you for everything you do, even if it's degrading. If she really wants something, she needs to beg for it. One trick I use is that I say "If you beg nicely, I'll let you cum" (or whatever it is the sub wants). When he says "Please Sir, let me cum", I respond with something like "You don't sound like you really need it. I don't think you're desperate enough." If the sub begs better, I'll say "Hmm. That was a little better. But I still don't think you really need it." That's a game you can stretch out for a long time.
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