Ok here is the deal. My GF has recently got into the dom/sub culture and wants me to explore with her. For some reason I dont see myself acting/doing the things that she wants me to do as a dom. I have always been lax and not necessarily sub, I just dont find anything arousing from all this. I guess I've always respected women too much to do things like that. Of course I want to please her, but I guess this is not my thing?? What do I do, I have told her before and now she's going off to fetish balls and bdsm meetings (which she doesn't know I know) and it's slowly bringing this all to an end. I dunno, I'm just trying to find some help.