In summary..... My current situation is that my first Dom experience is something outside the realm of my relationship with my romantic partner. The "agreement" with my Dom will be ending in a week when he goes off to a four year tour of service. Thus far I have done my best to separate what happens behind closed doors and our public interactions but I am afraid that when he leaves I will develop an unhealthy attachment to him. My question is for more experienced sub's than myself, How do I handle the end of such a relationship without having inappropriate feelings? Any suggestions are welcome, again I am new to this type of partnership and have no "formal" training or knowledge.