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My past, is no worse then anyone else's and I'm not looking for sympathy, but since you asked, here it goes.
I was raised with one sister. We were raised by pothead hoarders, in filth. Our lives revolved around the paranoia that someone might find out, and we would be taken away from our parents. I love my parents, but I truly hate what they did to us. Made me odd, queer, antisocial. It made my sister turn to drugs and sex.
When I was 6 and she was 4 I watched her be raped by our 13 yo cousin. We kept of a secret for a couple weeks, I don't really know why past shame. When it came out it was of course dramatic, but all that really happened was we no longer had contact with that part of the family. That whole thing taught me that sex was something that is taken, not shared. It's something I know is wrong now, but later down the line...
My father thought he hid his porn well enough I guess. My sister and I would he left alone for extended periods of time. After we found it, we began watching it together. I will not go into the details, but I think I don't have to.
I still feel shame for letting our cousin do that to my sister. I feel greater shame, for what we did together. My sister and I have reconciled, and we have both healed, mostly, from the pain of our childhood.
So fast forward; I'm 19, and I meet my first wife. We marry and have a daughter. Time passes, we have a son. After my son is born, we move here. She was a decent enough wife, I was making good money, things are well.
I then get into an accident. I am messed up badly. I can't walk. About a week after getting home, she brings up, she's horny. I can't move my dick due to the meds I'm on. She knows of my leanings towards curiosity of men, and brings up we try swinging. I was addled on some serious meds and thinking about it now, I hate her for bringing this up when I couldn't think straight.
But she did, I agreed, and so began the end of my marriage. Things became bad, she would play, not let me play. Throw things in my face. She also began hitting me, not hard but fairly regularly, and it began to eat at me. I began to do things to hurt her.
On my birthday many years ago now, she told me she was leaving me for a man who had been living with us as her boyfriend. I pleaded, begged, I did not want to lose my family. A couple weeks before this, we had our third child. She would not hear it, and I left and began living with some friends we met in the lifestyle.
I had been living with them for about a month, when I asked baby out on a date. I met her outside the lifestyle. I'm open with her that I am having sex with every woman in the house, and I don't want to stop. I told her this on our third date, and to my surprise she was eager to know more, to watch....
It's 6 years later now. Baby and I are closer and more loving to each other then I ever thought was possible. She has been helping me to develop my dominant personality, as I have never had an open opportunity to do so. She enjoys seeing my confidence grow, my assertive side pushing out. She wants a man who is not kept. I am slowly becoming that. It's not an easy thing to change, but I do desperately want to change it.
I hate my ex for putting her sex before her fam. In the end, I feel I am better off for losing her, but part of me wants all our children together again.
She kept me what she wanted, and it drove me to a weak and sad place, helpless and not in control. I will not be weak and sad when it comes to my desire, ever again, and I do not feel shame for it.
I do not mean to come off as someone who is full of hate, I'm not. I feel like if in can in some ways control this married woman, then I can somehow control my thoughts, my past.
I know this is wrong on some level but I have little respect for monogamy, less for marriage. It seems to me a piece paper means little. My pet sought me out. I did not force her to place the ad.
I do also realize that this is not the greatest thing to be risking my family now. I just feel again, like deserve it
This is fairly rambling and probaly not the most accurate memory of events, but it is what got me to this point.
I am no longer actively involved in swinging, I do still moderate a local group. Curiously, I would not consider casual sex with a married woman in the swinging life if her partner didn't know, I in fact boot people who are looking to cheat. I feel hypocritical for it, but in this, I find I am mainly considering my own gratification.
Well there it is Sebastian.
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