Hello. I'm new here and this is my first time posting. My wife and I (lesbians) are interested in a BDSM relationship she is much older (39) where as I am much younger (22) She wants me to be her pet and I am very much interested in this as I am somewhat of a submissive by nature. We've been working on making it official but there is a few things holding us back. I am entirely untrained and I can be really rebelious at times. Another thing is that I consider body modifications to be my life I am extremely passionate about them and believe that only through modifications can I truly be "perfect" When I say modifications I'm talking about magnetic implants, ear augmentation and other things. However if she was my master she would not allow any of that. I am hoping this isn't a black and white situation where I simply can't be her pet because of how she feels about my desired body modifications. I really do want to resolve this and become not only her perfect wife but her perfect pet. Oh and currently our relationship is long distance where we see each other occasionally. She should be coming to live with me in two months. Does anyone have any suggestions on how she can train me and what I can do? I don't want to give up my body modifications if that is what being her pet means though i do know I need to be trained to be less rebelious or learn myself. I should also add that she is entirely knew to being a master and could probably use guidance. Any help would be appreciated... it's kind of a confusing situation for me.